McQuay

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Thursday, October 13, 2011

{Baby Blessing}

On Sunday, October 9, 2011, Evette Rose McQuay had her baby blessing. We were lucky to have a lot of family in town and they were able to participate in the blessing with us. It was a beautiful baby blessing given to her by her father, surrounded by loving family members including 3 of her great grandpas, her 2 grandpas, 2 of her uncles, and quite a few great uncles and others. It was a beautiful thing. Evette wore the same dress that I did when I was blessed - my Aunt Janice made it for me. Here are some pictures of this day.

She looks like an angel :)



Our cute family :)

Aunt Judy and Cousin Julianne


We had a family get-together afterwards at my Aunt Noelle's house:


4 Generation Picture! Great Grandma McIntosh, Grandpa Jeff, Mommy, Evette




It was a long day....Scott needed to take a nap :)

Dan crashed and took a nap as well....

McQuay Grandparentals


McIntosh Parentals
I'm sure my parents will love me posting this picture....haha but it was so funny!!!



Uncle Dan brought Evette her first flower! A Rose, of course!! How sweet - he picked it on his walk up to our home.




Wednesday, October 12, 2011

{Family in Town}

On Saturday, Oct 8, the rest of my family and the husband's family flew in to meet Evette and to be here for her blessing day. I was so grateful that they were all able to come up and visit. It was truly sweet to be able to see Evette with her family who loves her so much. Family flew in on Saturday and left on Monday, it was a short visit but I'm so glad that they were able to come! :)















{Family Visits}


We are so lucky to live in Provo at the moment - we are surrounded by wonderful family members! Evette has had quite the visiting schedule for her first week or so....

Evette with her Uncle Scott!


Uncle Dan

4 Generation Picture! Evette with Great Grandma Richardson!

Great Grandpa Richardson

Auntie Caitlan

Great Grandpa McQuay

Great Grandma McQuay

Great Aunt Gwen

Great Aunt Janice

Heather, Evette's first cousin once removed

Haylee, Evette's first cousin once removed

Wil, Evette's first cousin once removed

Great Aunt Noelle with first cousins once removed Ryan and Gage

First cousin once removed, Elisa

First cousin once removed, Tara

 Evette is certainly not lacking in loving family connections! Thanks, family, for your love and support! :)

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

{First Couple Days}

Wow - I can't believe how great life is! I cannot imagine our life without Evette. She is seriously the sweetest baby in the whole world. She has such a sweet calming spirit about her and we love having her in our family. She is an angel - so precious. She sleeps pretty well, is a great nurser, and is a content baby.

This is Grandma Laurie [my mom]
She is the best. She flew down and stayed with us for 10 days - she was wonderful. She helped us so much, especially since I was confined to my bed for 3 days after labor and then was only to mozy around the house for the next 5 days. She woke up with the baby in the night and brought her to me to nurse, she did our dishes, kept up on the laundry, and fed us. I don't know how I would have done it without her - she made our lives so much simpler by being here. :)


The first few days after Miss Evette joined us involved....

cuddles

naps

baths


getting ready for the day

eating delicious food

taking sun baths

swinging in the swing

and lastly being a happy family!!!



Monday, October 3, 2011

{Birth Story}

Hello friends!!
First off - thanks everybody for the wonderful well wishes and congratulations via facebook, email, texts, phone calls! We feel so loved and are so grateful to have such wonderful friends and family! We are absolutely loving being parents and could not be happier :)

Here's a brief overview of the birth story for those of you who are interested.

After much prayer and research we decided to go with an all natural child birth. Our midwife was Sherri Price and we had Evette at a birthing center in Pleasant Grove. In preparation for our birth we did a home study of hypnobabies, which we loved.

On Tuesday morning I woke up around 1:30am with contractions about 5-10 minutes apart. I spent the next 3 hours or so walking around the house, trying to figure out if I was really in labor or if I was just making it up. I was not making it up. I woke up the husband around 4:30 and we decided that we should call Sherri, our midwife, and to make a game plan. She said that we should come over to her house and that she would check me to see how we were doing. We packed up our car with all of our birthing preparation stuff and headed over.

She said I was barely dilated, but was about 80% effaced. She said that this could just be a false alarm and that  the contractions could stop and it could be another week before the baby was born. She showed us a couple different tricks to make the contractions pass faster and smoother and sent us home to try to sleep through the contractions.

I could not sleep, but tried to rest as much as possible and to conserve my energy for the birth itself. The contractions did not slow down at all so later that afternoon Sherri sent over one of her assistants to check me again. I had made a little progress and it was determined that this was not a false alarm, but that we would be having a baby in the next 24-36 hours. Crazy. So all that day I labored at home while the husband was at school.

When he got home that evening we headed back up to our midwife's house to be checked again. Slow progress, but progress nonetheless. We decided at the point it was time to head to the birthing center. We had all of our stuff and met her down there with a couple of her assistants.

Birthing Center

This was a long labor. A very long very difficult labor. To make a very long story short I spent hours and hours trying different positions and techniques to try to get Miss Evette to join us [tub, birthing ball, climbing stairs, swaying...]. She was occiput posterior and my cervix was stubbornly tough which is not a happy combination. We tried 3 different times to birth the baby before she finally decided to join us. It was a long grueling process, but we finally got her turned.

After 39 hours of constant labor, running on naps lasting less than 5 minutes, a few grapes and a berry smoothie, lots of water, lots of sweat, many many tears, a few choice words, and lots and lots and lots of prayers, Miss Evette joined us at 4:42 pm on Wednesday September 28, 2011 weighing in at 8 lbs 9 oz and 22 inches long. She was absolutely perfect.

I had lost quite a bit of blood during the birth and was quickly hooked up to an IV, but I could not have been happier - I had our little girl in my arms.







With one of the assistants - Brindie

With Sherri, our midwife, and Roxanna, an assistant
Giving birth to Evette was the most rewarding event of my life. She is an angel from heaven and I cannot believe that she is ours.